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Pregnancy Isn’t Always a Glow—And That’s Okay: The Importance of Therapy During Pregnancy
We’ve all heard about the “pregnancy glow”—that radiant, blissful image of expectant motherhood. But what happens when you don’t feel like you’re glowing at all? When instead you feel exhausted, anxious, tearful, or completely depleted?
Here’s a gentle reminder: you are growing a human. That incredible process takes a tremendous amount of energy—physically, mentally, and emotionally. On top of that, your hormones (both old and new) are working overtime, which can leave you feeling anything but balanced.
Despite what we often hear, pregnancy isn’t always magical. It can be both beautiful and overwhelming, exciting and exhausting. Both can be true. Not every pregnancy is planned or desired, and every experience is uniquely personal. In a society that thrives on comparison, it’s easy to feel like you’re doing something wrong if your experience doesn’t match the picture-perfect version you see online.
The truth is, you’re not alone. Studies show that 1 in 5 women and 1 in 10 men experience depression or anxiety during the perinatal period. These struggles aren’t something you need to face in silence. Support and healing are possible—and seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
Symptoms of depression and anxiety when expecting:
You may be wondering whether what you’re feeling is “normal.” While everyone’s experience is different, here are some common signs that you may be struggling and could benefit from talking with someone:
Sadness or mood changes: Persistent sadness, frequent crying, mood swings, or feelings of hopelessness.
Anxiety: Constant worry, fear, tension, or feeling on edge.
Irritability: Becoming easily frustrated or short-tempered.
Loss of interest: No longer enjoying activities or connection with your partner.
Guilt or worthlessness: Feeling inadequate, guilty, or like you’re not enough.
Bonding challenges: Struggling to feel connected to your baby.
Overwhelm: Feeling like you can’t keep up or are constantly drained.
Relationship stress: Changing dynamics, unmet expectations, or lack of support.
Isolation: Feeling alone or misunderstood, even by those close to you.
Pressure to be happy: Feeling guilty for not feeling the “joy” everyone talks about.
If any of this resonates with you, please know—you are not alone. What you’re experiencing is valid, and support is available.
At Innerbody Works, therapist Erin Lambright specializes in perinatal and maternal mental health and would be honored to walk alongside you through this season. Together, you can explore what you’re feeling, find understanding, and begin to restore balance and hope as you prepare for motherhood in your own authentic way.
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